Wednesday, August 15, 2018

Failed Relationships--A Product of Sexual Addiction?

Is my failed or discontinued or terminated relationship a product or an effect of my former or lingering sexual addiction?

It does not follow. As long as you're repentant and reforming former sexual addicts, who is continuing your healing process, God can and will save you from catastrophic relationships.

Then how do I know. Simply put, if the separation of non-married romantic partners (note that divorce is sinful) is borne out of love, the reasons valid, then such separation is not a product nor an effect of your former sexual addiction.

There are lots of reasons that can end a blooming relationship. Perhaps the male partner lied that he has no alcohol or smoking problem to which the female partner started to love her but found out the truth later on, while he insisted he has no problem and didn't enter an addiction program adamantly. Perhaps feelings for each other have been established already, acquainted with each other, but did not put forth for discussion one's religious preferences which only later opened up, which built up to hostilities with each others convictions. Believe me these partners will lastly surrender their feelings for each other due to reasons of love for the other, for the good of the partner, with all of one's best intention for the other, that only separation can start its fruition. Though goodbyes will formally start the separation, letting your yes be yes and your no a no, no scruples of former sexual addictions should stop these valid goodbye process.

Our Blessed Mother assumed into heaven, pray for us sinners!

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