A normal single male sees a beautiful girl. What will he think next? He will think about how to befriend her.
We former sexual addicts don't understand that too well.
We even think it's talking to her how we feel about her as the first order rather than sexually fantasizing about her.
What is her religion? Is she kind? Is she in the first place single or doesn't she have a boyfriend? How would you be able to know all those facts if you'll attack first with telling her how infatuated you are with her. Wrong move.
Befriending her first is the safest move to be connected with her, so that if she's married already, if she doesn't agree joining your religion which you may prefer, if you find that she's a witch, you know what to do, stay away but still remain an acquaintance or just a friendly good neighbor.
Becoming a friend comes with imagining situations how your first conversation would be like or how you will handle it. Yes, this calls for the most powerful weaponry a sexual addict has, using his imagination to plan how you will pass the first base of becoming her friend.
Yes, if you're ready to court a girl please start with that already, and pray to St. Raphael (use our prayer here), so that your first conversation might not end into a disaster, the Enemy enjoying blocking your way so that you'll not be able to marry and stay a sexual addict.
Mother Mary, help me!
We former sexual addicts don't understand that too well.
We even think it's talking to her how we feel about her as the first order rather than sexually fantasizing about her.
What is her religion? Is she kind? Is she in the first place single or doesn't she have a boyfriend? How would you be able to know all those facts if you'll attack first with telling her how infatuated you are with her. Wrong move.
Befriending her first is the safest move to be connected with her, so that if she's married already, if she doesn't agree joining your religion which you may prefer, if you find that she's a witch, you know what to do, stay away but still remain an acquaintance or just a friendly good neighbor.
Becoming a friend comes with imagining situations how your first conversation would be like or how you will handle it. Yes, this calls for the most powerful weaponry a sexual addict has, using his imagination to plan how you will pass the first base of becoming her friend.
Yes, if you're ready to court a girl please start with that already, and pray to St. Raphael (use our prayer here), so that your first conversation might not end into a disaster, the Enemy enjoying blocking your way so that you'll not be able to marry and stay a sexual addict.
Mother Mary, help me!